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Tuesday, February 5, 2019

Enemy of Best



There is an old saying:
Good, better, best
Never let it rest
Get your good, better,
And you’re better, best.

I needed to take my new horse, Angel, to the vet to get her teeth checked because she was thin and had continued to lose weight after the move to New Mexico. Although I had taken some time to get her trailer loading functional (“good enough”) before we left Colorado, it was not very good. (See the article, "Fearful Angel."

I set aside a couple of hours prior to the departure for the vet to make sure that I could have her loading confidently. I set to the task. It took almost half an hour before she would load with little hesitation, but I still needed the help of a long rope looped through a ring near the manger to keep her nose in the right direction. (She was very distractible and kept wanting to look back at JoyFull in the pen.)

I knew it was “good enough” to get us the clinic, but had doubts about getting her loaded to come back home without another training session at the vet clinic. Instead of dropping the subject with her, I let her have a break and then kept reapproaching the subject. Anytime she gave me a bigger try, I’d take her for another break or give her a bite of hay. We kept this up for another hour until she was loading with vigor and staying in longer and longer and even relaxing enough to nibble hay in the trailer. When it was time to go, she loaded better than JoyFull both going to the vet and coming home.

What if I had stopped when it was “good enough”? The problem with “good enough” is that it often leads to forgetfulness. We forget about working on it until the next time the skill is needed. Then we discovery that it is not “good enough” any more and we must take more time to work on it again. It is the old situation of not taking the time it takes to cement the behavior, so you have to take the time to do it over and over and over again. In fact, if the need arises irregularly, the skill may never be mastered or the project finished.

This applies to people and their lives as well. What are you tolerating in your life that is “good enough” instead of putting forth you best effort?
Work performance?
House cleaning or organization?
Weight loss?
Fitness?
Spiritual life?
Financial fitness?
Relationships?
Your calling or purpose?

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord.”
Colossians 3:23 NIV

If you knew you were working for the God of the universe, what would you do differently?

You are, you know!

Saturday, February 2, 2019

The Fearful Angel



Over the last several years,
since Dazzle died, I have had a yearning to breed again.  Usually this yearning starts in the winter or fall and—usually—by summer I am able to shake it…BUT in 2018 instead of being able to shake it, the desire kept getting stronger and stronger.

Thursday, January 31, 2019

Where, Oh Where Did The Strege’s Disappear To?

It has been over 2 years since I have written. Oh my, a lot of water has roared under the bridge!

Tuesday, January 29, 2019

Top 10 Reasons I'm Selling My Horses

JoyFull and Treasure at Soldier Creek Wilderness, NE

I have had many people lamenting my decision to sell my horses and wondering if I’m getting out of horses and horsemanship.  The short answer is “no.”  I’m only getting out of horse ownership.  I still have much horsemanship knowledge to share and teaching is a gift that gives me much joy.  There are many reasons, that I find it expedient to end horse ownership.

Here are my top 10 reasons:  

Thursday, October 13, 2016

Horsemanship: Fountain of Witty Ideas

I wisdom dwell with prudence, and find out knowledge of witty inventions.  Proverbs 8: 12

A frequent complaint of students across the country is that they feel they are boring their horses and... they are right!  But this need not be true if you have a witty idea!

When I was newly in the Parelli program, I attended a clinic taught by Neil Pye.  It was a Level 1 Beginning Partnership clinic.  He said something that ignited my imagination,

Thursday, September 8, 2016

What is a Dream Worth?

"Take delight in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart."  Psalm 37:4  NIV

"He fulfills the desires of those who fear him..." Psalm 145:19 NIV

 Did you know that God actually put dreams and desires in your heart!

Wednesday, August 24, 2016

Horsemanship: Curl Your Toes!

"Then a great and powerful wind tore the mountains apart and shattered the rocks before the LORD, but the LORD was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the LORD was not in the earthquake.
12 After the earthquake came a fire, but the LORD was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper."    I Kings 19:11-12 (NIV)

Subtle communication is a hallmark of an intimate relationship...with God, with another person and, yes, even your horse.  What if you could cause your horse to move simply by curling your toes?